Have you come in contact with a fixer?   If you are experiencing a loss, then most likely you have. A fixer is a person that arranges matters. It is in some people’s nature to try and fix you as if you have fallen and just need a bandaid. You may hear a fixer say, “just wipe yourself off and get back on the horse.”

Some people just do not know how to deal with your grief, and it is their way of trying to help. They don’t want you in pain, so they look at the easiest solution and try and implement it. You may perceive them as being insensitive. However, they don’t understand, and you don’t want them to understand.  Otherwise, they would have experienced a loss.

God is the only real fixer. ‘Ah, Lord God! Behold, You have made the heavens and the earth by Your great power and outstretched arm. There is nothing too hard for You.’ Jeremiah 32:17 NKJV