A loss can stir up anger, bitterness, un-forgiveness, trauma; all of these may pull you from God. God knows your heart and wants to bless you. But you must remain blessable. Ask the Holy Spirit to show you if there is something in your life that is preventing you from becoming blessable. God favors those whose hearts are entirely His.

“For the eyes of the Lord run to and fro throughout the whole earth, to show Himself strong on behalf of those whose heart is loyal to Him.” 2 Chronicles 16:9