I look back on the events after my loss, and I see the Lord’s hand everywhere. A couple of days after my husband died I went to the funeral home; lots of decisions were upon me. I chose to have cards made up with a picture of my husband...
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Do I Dare Follow? I was a pastor’s wife and teaching Sunday school, when I asked the Lord how I could go deeper in relationship with Him, as I had given Him my whole heart. What else was there to learn? WOW! In the next year I found...
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What is showing through while you grieve may be only the tip of the iceberg. Ninty percent of an iceberg is below the surface and out of sight. “while we do not look at the things which are seen, but at the things which are not seen. For the things...
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Loss of the Beauty of Youth Because of our preoccupation of always wanting to look young, we see plastic surgery to tuck those wrinkles as almost a necessity. But, we need to keep our priority on the One who really matters when it comes to beauty. “Charm is...
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After a loss, you may be carrying an excess load. Some people describe their grief like carrying a load of bricks that keep weighing them down. The heaviness may become unbearable until you can’t move. Let your bricks fall. They will not build you a solid foundation. “Anyone who listens...
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Bucket List In the West, we have a phrase when someone dies. We say, “He kicked the bucket.” So, the term “bucket list” came from a list people make of things they want to do or accomplish before they die. The Lord has provided for me so that...
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Does your grief feel like you are drowning? When the Titanic started to go down people in the life boats had to row away from the ship. The energy of the ship created a vacuum and pulled everything down with it. Negative thoughts can behave the same way; you have...
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God is our Protector We are told to put up our shield of faith in Ephesians 6. But, God is our shield. Do we trust Him? “Every word of God is pure; He is a shield to those who put their trust in Him.” Proverbs 30:5 NKJV
When you have a loss that affects several family members, the tendency may be to tip-toe around each other for fear of hurting the other person. Sharing becomes difficult, and avoidance may become the norm. Family dynamics are going to change which may create another loss. Patience, love and...
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