We all, at times, judge people by appearance. How their hair looks or what they are wearing. If we want people to see who we are, we need to “put on the new man which was created according to God, in true righteousness and holiness.” Gal 4:24

“Therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, put on tender mercies, kindness, humility, meekness, longsuffering; bearing with one another, and forgiving one another, if anyone has a complaint against another; even as Christ forgave you, so you also must do.” Col 3:12-13