It is a lifestyle, a way of living. A lifestyle can be expressed through work, attitudes/behaviors, values, interest, self-image, world view, religious beliefs and/or motivations. The lifestyle you choose can affect your Spirit, soul and body. How are you choosing to live? If we want to live a life that is commendable to God, then we need to look at what the Bible says, “…The just shall live by faith.” Romans 1:17
When you are a christian you should desire to make the Lord the focal point in every area of your life. Your heart is His and His desires are yours.
‘You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.’. Mathew 22:37
A broken heart is a heart that cannot love the Lord fully. We need to first ask God to search our hearts, test it and show us what we need to change (Psalm 139:23). “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” Proverbs 3:5-6 NIV
You should also be seeking a renewed mind,“For those who live according to the flesh set their minds on the things of the flesh, but those who live according to the Spirit, the things of the Spirit. For to be carnally minded is death, but to be spiritually minded is life and peace.” Romans 8:5-6
You should desire a lifestyle laid down for Christ.