Have you ever considered over and over in your brain why someone said what they said. The wondering may turn to self reflection or even feelings of rejection.
The Bible says to think on good things.

“Also do not take to heart everything people say, Lest you hear your servant cursing you. For many times, also, your own heart has known That even you have cursed others.” Ecclesiastes‬ ‭7:21-22‬ ‭NKJV‬‬