There may also be other areas of loss that one deals with.

  • Loss of income
  • Loss of home
  • Loss of children
  • Loss of in-law relationships
  • Loss of church
  • Loss of respect
  • Loss of identity
  • Loss of friends

Before you separate…

  1. What does the Bible say about divorce? “And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery;. . .” Matthew 19: 9a NKJV.
  2. Sexual immorality is the only reason for divorce in the Bible. But if a spouse or children are being abused, there is no reason to stick around. The Bible does not prevent one from being “separated” out of trouble. Finding a safe place is important.

Assuming that you have are already sought counseling before separation…

Seeking counseling as the first step in healing.

  1. Divorce Care is a great resource for digesting all the ramifications that separation and divorce can bring.  Check-out our Resource Guide.
  2. If you find yourself fleeing from your home, the first thing is to have a place of shelter. There are women’s shelters and a few that accommodate men as well. Contact social services or local church.
  3. Make arrangements for police protection as necessary.

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Jesus tells us in Luke 4:18, 21 that He heals the brokenhearted. Only looking to Jesus for protection, provision and help will bring complete healing.